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I do not know if what I’m about to write makes me a monster. I do know that it makes me a part of a miniscule minority, if Internet trends and news stories of the past weeks are any guide.

“It”, is this:

I haven’t donated a cent to the Haitian relief effort. And I probably will not.

I haven’t donated to the Haitian relief effort for the same reason that I don’t give money to homeless men on the street. Based on past experiences, I don’t think the guy with the sign that reads “Need You’re Help” is going to do anything constructive with the dollar I might give him. If I use history as my guide, I don’t think the people of Haiti will do much with my money either.

In this belief I am, evidently, alone. It seems that everyone has jumped on the  “Save Haiti” bandwagon. To question the impulse to donate, then, will probably be viewed as analogous with rooting for Charles Manson, John Wayne Gacy, or the Spice Girls.

My wariness has much to do with the fact that the sympathy deployed to Haiti has been done so unconditionally. Very few have said, written, or even intimated the slightest admonishment of Haiti, the country, for putting itself into a position where so many would be killed by an earthquake.

I can’t help but wonder why questions have not been raised in the face of this outpouring of support. Questions like this one:

Shouldn’t much of the responsibility for the disaster lie with the victims of that disaster?

Before the reader reaches for his or her blood pressure medication, he should allow me to explain. I don’t mean in any way that the Haitians deserved their collective fate. And I understand that it is difficult to plan for the aftermath of an earthquake. However, it is not outside the realm of imagination to think that the citizens of a country might be able to: A) avoid putting themselves into a situation that might result in such catastrophic loss of life.  And B) provide for their own aid, in the event of such a catastrophe.

Imagine that I’m a caveman. Imagine that I’ve chosen to build my house out of balsa wood, and that I’m building it next to a roaring river because I’ve decided it will make harvesting fish that much easier. Then, imagine that my hut is destroyed by a flood.

Imagining what would happen next is easier than imagining me carrying a caveman’s club. If I were lucky enough to survive the roaring waters that took my hut, my tribesmen would say, “Building next to the river was pretty dumb, wasn’t it?.” Or, if I weren’t so lucky, they’d say, “At least we don’t have to worry about that moron anymore.”

Sure, you think, but those are cavemen. We’re more civilized now – we help each other, even when we make mistakes.

True enough. But what about when people repeat their mistakes? And what about when they do things that obviously act against their own self-interests?

In the case of mistakes and warnings as applied to Haiti, I don’t mean to indict those who ignored actual warnings against earthquakes, of which there were many before the recent one. Although it would have been prudent to pay heed to those, I suppose.

Instead, I’m referring to the circumstances in which people lived.  While the earthquake was, obviously, unavoidable, the way in which many of the people of Haiti lived was not.  Regrettably, some Haitians would have died regardless of the conditions in that country.  But the fact that so many people lived in such abject poverty exacerbated the extent of the crisis.

How could humans do this to themselves? And what’s being done to stop it from happening again?

After the tsunami of 2004, the citizens of the world wailed and donated and volunteered for cleanup, rarely asking the important – and, I think, obvious – question: What were all those people doing there in the first place? Just as important: If they move back to a place near the ocean that had just been destroyed by a giant wave, shouldn’t our instinct be to say, “Go ahead if you want, but you’re on your own now.”?

We did the same after Hurricane Katrina. We were quick to vilify humans who were too slow to respond to the needs of victims, forgetting that the victims had built and maintained a major city below sea level in a known target zone for hurricanes. Our response: Make the same mistake again. Rebuild a doomed city, putting aside logic as we did.

And now, faced with a similar situation, it seems likely that we will do the same.

Shouldn’t there be some discourse on how the millions of dollars that are being poured into Haiti will be spent? And at least a slight reprimand for the conditions prior to the earthquake? Some kind of inquisition? Something like this?:

Dear Haitians –

First of all, kudos on developing the poorest country in the Western Hemisphere. Your commitment to human rights, infrastructure, and birth control should be applauded.

As we prepare to assist you in this difficult time, a polite request: If it’s possible, could you not re-build your island home in the image of its predecessor? Could you not resort to the creation of flimsy shanty- and shack-towns? And could some of you maybe use a condom once in a while?

Sincerely,

The Rest of the World

It shouldn’t be outlandish to hope that we might stop short of the reactionary word that is so often flung about after natural (and unnatural) disasters. That word: Rebuild. Thus, the tired, knee-jerk cycle of aid/assist/rebuild would be replaced by a new one: Aid/assist/let’s-stop-and-think-before-we-screw-this-up-again.

If forced to do so through logic-colored glasses, no one would look at Haiti and think, “You know what? It was a great idea to put 10 million people on half of an island. The place is routinely battered by hurricanes (in 2008, $900 million was lost/spent on recovery from them), it holds the aforementioned title of poorest nation in the Western hemisphere, and it happens to sit on a tectonic fault line.”

If it were apparent that Haiti would likely rebuild in an earthquake-resistant way, and if a cure could be found for hurricane abuse of island nations, then maybe one could imagine putting a sustained effort into rebuilding the place. But that would only be feasible if the country had shown any ability to manage its affairs in the past, which it has not done.

I can tell, based on my own reaction to that last sentence, that it might strike a nerve. The reader might be tempted to think, “We can’t blame the people of Haiti for their problems. Surely it’s someone else’s fault.” A similar sentiment can be found in this quote, from an article on the geology behind the quake:

“Unfortunately, [Haiti]’s government was not in a position to really do much to prepare for the inevitable large earthquake, leaving tens of thousands to suffer the consequences.”

The sentiment expressed is one of outrage at the government. But, ultimately, the people in a country have control over their government. One could argue that in totalitarian regimes, they do not have much control, but in the end, it is their government. And therefore, their responsibility. If the government is not doing enough for the people, it is the people’s responsibility to change the government. Not the other way around.

Additionally, some responsibility for the individual lies with that individual.

A Haitian woman, days after the earthquake:

“We need so much. Food, clothes, we need everything. I don’t know whose responsibility it is, but they need to give us something soon,” said Sophia Eltime, a mother of two who has been living under a bed sheet with seven members of her extended family. (From an AP report.)

Obviously, a set of circumstances such as the one in which Ms. Eltime was living is a heart-wrenching one. And for that, anyone would be sympathetic.  Until she says, “I don’t know whose responsibility it is.” I don’t know whose responsibility it is, either.  What I do know is that it is not the responsibility of the outside world to provide help. It’s nice if we do, but it is not a requirement, especially when people choose to influence their own existences negatively, whether by having too many children when they can’t afford them or by failing to recognize that living in a concrete bunker might not be the best way to protect one’s family, whether an earthquake happens or not.

Ms. Eltime’s reaction helps define what is the crux of my problem with the reaction to this and to other humanitarian crises. I recoil at the notion that I’m SUPPOSED to do something. I would like to help, but only if I feel that my assistance is deserved and justified.  If I perceive that I am being told to feel a certain way, and if I can point to a pattern of mistakes made in similar situations, I lose interest.

When I was young, the great humanitarian crisis facing our world – as portrayed by the media, anyway – was the starving masses in Africa. The solution found, of course, was to send bag after bag of food to those people, forgetting the long-understood maxim that giving more food to poor people allows them to create more poor people. (Admittedly, it’s a harsh truth.) At the time, my classmates and I, young and naïve as we were, thought we had come up with a better solution. “They should just go somewhere else,” we said. Our teacher grimaced, saying, “It’s not that simple.”

It still isn’t. And I’m not as naïve as I once was – I don’t think the people of Haiti have the option of moving.  But I do think that our assistance should be restricted, like it should be in cases of starvation.  It simply does not work to give, unconditionally.  What might work is to teach.  In the case of famine-stricken segments of Africa, teaching meant making people understand that a population of people needs a certain amount of food, and that the creation of that food has to be self-sustaining for the system to work.  In the case of earthquake-stricken Haiti, teaching might mean limited help, but help that is accompanied by criticism of the circumstances that made that help necessary.

In the case of the Haitian earthquake, it’s heartening to see people caring about the fates of their fellow men. What is alarming, I think, is the sometimes illogical frenzy toward casting those affected by the earthquake as helpless, innocent souls who were placed on the island of Hispaniola by an invisible force. In the case of some, this analogy might well be accurate; children cannot very well control their destinies. And as far as sympathy goes, much of it should go to those children.

But children are brought into the world by their parents. Those parents have a responsibility – to themselves and to their kids – to provide. They have a responsibility to look around – before an earthquake happens – and say, “I need to improve this situation, because if a catastrophe were to happen, we’d be in bad shape.”

The people of whom I write are adults. Functional, human adults with functional, human adult brains. It is not too much to ask that they behave as such. That they stand up and say, “Yes, we screwed this up the first time. We are forever indebted to you. Now show us how we can do it right.  So that, next time, we won’t need your help.”

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  1. Jimbob
    Actually I agree with you completely, especially with the education points. Not just here but around the world, education should be primary. I haven't given a coin to the Haiti effort either and won't. They made their bed, now they can lie in it. If we were going to teach even the next generation how better to deal with these things I might be for it but we are just going to give handouts...and then move on, and Haiti will be back where it was again in a few years. Why we don't help countries like India - a true republic in a region we need allies in, as well as a country rapidly moving towards First World, and instead help the poverty-stricken people who never change I'll never understand. Good article.
  2. tercermundista
    perhaps this was not the best way to introduce facts, but I agree that a lot of disclosure should be done concerning how and who will be taking responsibility of the money that is being sent over there...
  3. I agree
    I agree with Paul completely. As history has shown, over and over again, Haiti has and always will be the poorest nation in the western hemisphere. As long as the current government and corrupt officials are emplace, there will be no progress or real anything in Haiti. The United States and other nations have given over billions of dollars in resources to the Haitian country and there has been little progress to show for it. Nations build themselves with or without strong leaders. What makes a nation its own is that it was built by the will of its residents. For another nation to come and take control of that nation and to form it into something that the foreign nation sees fit is just as bad as a dictatorship, war, or occupation. As history has proven to us before, time and time again, Haiti will not see any major improvement in the long term and will revert back to the poverty plagued nation that it is. Throwing money at a prostitute doesn't make her change her ways.
  4. ntreed
    ReelID At least Paul knows when is caps lock is on... Enough said.
  5. Double
    Paul, I support your point of view.
  6. sigh
    first of all congratulations on mastering the art of the foot shot second the Haitian Government almost made a turn around of the country around 2000 but Bush had the government of Haiti destabilized because they were refusing to support American companies by allowing child labor to continue.
  7. k-dog
    This article implies that Haitians are responsible for their current plight. This was true in regards to the state of their country before the earthquake. But to suggest that the hundreds of thousands of deaths caused by the earthquake were self inflicted, has absolutely no foundation in any school of logic or rational thought. Even though I agree that western nations should stop spending billions on dead aid, it's obvious that completely unpreventable natural disasters call for a special response. What if a comet ploughs into the earth at some stage in the next 1000 years? Who's fault would it be then? Should we all be living in spaceships in anticipation of this threat? ffs.
  8. sam
    Why should we ever help the less fortunate? Seriously! It's such a silly concept, helping people in need. Oh yeah, Paul Shirley is a selfish idiot.
  9. NCA
    It's not like everyone in Haiti can just walk out and about from their country. There are illegal immigration laws that prevent them from doing so.
  10. Plantovski
    Good sir, I believe you've constructed quite a logical argument and I'm sad to see that so many of the sites and corporations you affiliate with have, for lack of better phrasing, disowned you faster than a twelve year old boy does his own innocence. While you have made great argument however, I feel that you've left out a few things that the general public fails to realize. Because my ego is massive and I fancy myself as being a problem solver, I'll attempt to let others browsing your page know what you've not shed light upon. Point A: Non-Government Organizations (NGOs) such as the ones offering support to Haiti are some of the most prolific businesses of our time. They increase with every natural disaster and many of them amount to a get-rich-quick scheme that succeeds. You'll notice if you look that many heads of such organizations have made their entire livelihood through work with these organizations. In fact, more of the donated money to emergency causes especially finds its ways into the hands of the NGOs as opposed to the people they have deigned to help. While yes, there are groups such as Heifer that support the ability of humans to be educated and learn to become self-supportive, most take on a face similar to those companies who claim to recycle old electronics while shipping them to China, India, and Nigeria where they damage the soil, poison water supplies, and generally end up being guarded by criminal groups whilst continuing to kill off the nearby population (of course, these NGOs do have the money and resources to build processing factories for the items they collect but they're out to make money, not help people). In short, a good majority of these organizations that you think are aiding others are actually just stealing your money. Point B:Out of the remaining NGOs that honestly attempt to give to the countries all that they can, a miniscule amount are able to get that money and aid to the people? Why? Because they give to the governments of the countries. Where has this happened? Myanmar. African nations in general, minus the few that are self-sustaining. New Orleans, though that isn't a country. Give money to the governments and they'll spend it all on themselves. Congratulations, donators. You just gave a corrupt system more money to abuse its people with. Or a new car. You know, whichever takes priority. Haiti is no different. Most aid money is given to the government. You know why you haven't seen any improvement yet? Because they pocketed it all. I'll take this chance to truly address those whom I was making points to. Donating isn't bad. Giving to the Haitian cause is in no way wrong, but for God's sake do it right. Research the NGOs thoroughly before giving to them, don't do it on a whim. It will make your contributions meaningless. If you'd really like to help the population, find groups that look for sustainability and not a short term fix of a long term problem. I respect your capacity to give but not the way in which you do it. You can do good, but it takes some real effort on your part, not just a dollar into a bin. Go beyond just watching the news at night and learn the causes behind issues and what can be done to help solve them. To our host who posted, I think, with the best of intentions, I have made a letter for you as well: Dear Mr. Shirley- Primarily, congratulations on using logical argument to tell those who wanted to do good that they were idiots. From the bottom of my heart I must say that you excellently alienated a good majority of your readership and while I can't understand for what purpose you did so, you did a fantastic job of it. Way to insinuate that a mentally and physically abused population was at fault for not reforming their government. That isn't a job that requires education, central leaders within the country, or a preexisting idea for reform at all, they should just be able to hop to it. Your beliefs that condoms should be carried by those without money for sexual education or even food and shelter were just outstanding. Next time though, it would be cool if you could consider your readers as equals and maybe think through your explanations. Perhaps think about what's involved in building a new city from scratch, and maybe why they were in their locations in the first place. Maybe you could offer good solutions once and a while. Sincerely, Zechariah Plantovski
  11. Hugh
    Wow, Mr. Shirley I cannot believe these are actual human words. I don't what's more disheartening, reading this article or the dozens of comments supporting this article I sifted through. How could you sit here and discuss issues of responsibility when you yourself posted commentary so immoral, misinformed, and irresponsible? You are so blessed and you have no idea. Living in a wealthy country has shrouded your eyes to the harsh realities of people striving to live daily in poor countries around the world. Don't you think the Haitians want to improve their condition? Who in their right mind would want to live in a shanty hut if they could live in a brick house? They simply don't have a luxury to choose. You blamed the Haitians for 'putting themselves into a situation that might result in such catastrophic loss of life.' I'm pretty sure earthquake strikes are random. Maybe you own some sort of technology that could predict when/where the next quake would hit or you have a magic planner that tells you the magnitude of the quake, but the rest of the world [Haiti included] are in the dark when it comes to these "NATURAL" disasters. I think you should give people more credit; nobody wants to put themselves in a situation that would endanger his/her life and/or the lives of their family. You ask why their government don’t provide aid to their own people. In fact they do, but their capability and reach is limited to the resources they have available. Instead of reprimanding and pointing fingers blindly why don’t you actually book a flight down to Haiti or areas in Southeast Asia devastated by the Tsunami and learn first-hand about the conditions of life of many who are less fortunate. Shame on you, these are our fellow mankind. Even if you harbor no empathy for their situation, it’s wrong and you have no right to disrespect/disgrace these people. Especially when you have no idea what their conditions are like.
  12. Luke Hawkins
    STIIIIILL not a single person to argue a valid point against what Paul has said. I agree whole heartedly with him but there are agruements that can be made, just not that have been so far. Why not donate to the injured and orphan dogs in animal shelters everytime those commercials come on?? Seriously people, get a clue.
  13. Tam
    Okay, valid points. So, what are you going to do about it? I agree that most relief efforts are bandaids at best, and an expensive life-support system at worst. At least, that's what I got from your rant. What are YOU going to do about it? Are you condemning others for not helping enough? Or salving the sting of your own ego and justifying your decision to not help at all? Are you trying to make a difference? Or just attacking others before they can attack you?
  14. Jeffrey Taylor
    Im going to pray for you. Hopefully one day youll never be an "island" that needs the help of your neighbors.
  15. Oscar
    No Paul, this does not make you a monster. Just a monstorous dick
  16. Anonymous
    Mr. Shirley, I pray that scientists will soon find a cure for your ignorance. please take the time to do a search on Haiti's history next time you decide to give your opinion. I am HAITIAN and you obviously have no clue... Haiti was once a thriving and prosperous island until the French and Americans basically decided that it was unlawful for "blacks" to be successful. but despite threats, we revolted and became the first independent black republic and kicked everyone out. Would you happened to know why? well it is not because we wanted or had the desire to always have things handed out to us. Do a search on google and you might actually find some facts. for you to suggest that we brought this earthquake on ourserves is just heartbreaking: My 22 year old cousin LEON NOEL is still missing. he was at his University library studying. I lost many friends and so many others are now homeless. sir it is true that we are illiterate but we stil have common sense. something that you obviously dont know how to use. i think we could have brought something more positive on ourselves. not an earthquake that has taken many lives and left so many homeless. SIR,WE DID NOT BRING THIS ON OURSELVES... i just want to take the time to say THANK YOU for all your donations/prayers. WE ( the people of Haiti) are very grateful for the help that we have received. Again THANK YOU
  17. derrick
    People who lack compassion have no souls. May you be buried alive and Hades becomes your dwelling place.
  18. Nadya
    I've heard these arguments before, and I heartily disagree. You've said that parents raise their children, but have you forgotten that those parents were once children who were raised by their parents, and them by their parents. Have you forgotten that in a poverty stricken country few people are educated. How are they supposed to know how to prepare for an earthquake? Where is this knowledge going to come from? The way to build a house so that an earthquake will not destroy it is not the kind of thing people just know. That is the kind of thing engineers know. The kind of thing you need education to know. It is also something you need money to do. Quality building supplies aren't cheap, you know. And how are they to get the money for this? Most poor people wouldn't be poor if they could help it. Ah, but they ought to have demanded this all from their government. Do you really believe that those people whose spend most of their time merely trying to survive really have any influence over their lawmakers? Do you think they have time to worry about possible future disasters when they were busy trying to live long enough to see them. Who is to blame for this disaster? Isn't it those of us who knew how lives could have been saved, who had the means to do something about it, and never did? Do you think it has nothing to do with you because it's not in your country? But the beggar is and you blame him for his poverty too. Are you never to take responsibility until you yourself are the victim? Tell me how you were responsible for the country you were born in, for the parents you were born to, for the circumstances of your life. There is much of your life that you cannot help, just as the people of Haiti can't. Unless you have experienced abject poverty, you shouldn't talk as though it were a simple thing to get out of. You say we should give them knowledge. I agree, let's. But let's make sure they live long enough to use it.
  19. Anonymous
    You have vilified him because he dared to voice an opinion. read this first and then decide if he was wrong. http://www.haitiaction.net/News/HIP/3_4_7/3_4_7.html
  20. Matt
    Oh, I could name a bunch who truly lack compassion and wear masks to hide their real faces and intentions while playing with morals. Mr. Shirley was honest and true to himself and to his thoughts for speaking his mind.
  21. Jay
    I enjoyed reading this article and you bring up some very good points and have revolutionary ideas. However, i must disagree with your solution. You say, "(The parents) have the responsibility to look around- before an earthquake happens-....because if a catastrophe was to happen, we'd be in bad shape". You either fail to realize, or fail to mention, that these parents have no resources to prepare for alarge earthquake. As you mentioned, Haiti is the poorest country in the western hemisphere. The parents that you blame are just trying to survive. They do not have the luxury of earthquake proofing there homes like most North Americans do. As for who to blame, unfortunately, there is nobody to blame. Earthquakes and other natural disasters are just part of the world and we must accept them. I also would like to make it clear that I do not shun you for not donating to the people of Haiti. I respect your belief that it is not mandatory to donate to these people but i commend the the people who do.
  22. Mohindar
    I share your view that rebuilding cities on fault lines is not the best idea. But you've ignorantly insinuated that Haiti is the only city resting on a tectonic fault line. The San Andreas fault runs through california and so the region has predicted damaging earthquakes every 100-150 years. Are you saying that the whole of that region is stupid and does not deserve aid when a crisis hits?
  23. Anonymous
    Seriously?? Your "state university" education did not serve you well. You get an F on critical history!!
  24. Mark Lee
    If at the time the people of Hati freed themselves from France's enslavement, the USA had not blockaded the new country from trading with the outside world to prevent the influence of a free black state on American slaves, and to support France's claim for reparation to French slave owners, the outcome would be different. Maybe if President Woodrow Wilson had not sent his forces to occupy Haiti in 1914 to foil German economic investments, and remained in the country to ensure repayment of debts to Citi and the old French debt, just maybe the outcome would be different. If the dictators who arose in response to the harsh envronment created by constant international siege, the outcome would be different. And if when Haitians voted against their last dictator in favour of an elected president, if he was not deposed by SWashington and deported to South Africa, the ouctomes would have begun to change.
  25. Robert Sutcliffe
    Yeah, the rapid urbanisation leading to the shanty towns was not a result of American pressure after kidnapping the Haitian president. How about another letter. Dear Americans Please fuck off out of world affairs. Love The rest of the world.
  26. AntiIdiotPolice
    kid is a moron. i say that with the utmost respect. you sir are a moron. what country can build ecoomically when the USA is literally barring it from international trade? Americans will at some point have to look in the mirror at the callous hateful treatment of non-white peoples around the world. You scream at blacks for not having jobs in America and giving them welfare while TOTALLY IGNORING the fact that blacks built businesses and made up the bulk of skilled tradesmen in the mid to late 1800's only to be KICKED OUT OF THEIR JOBS and have their businesses BURNT as was the case with the Black Wall Street District in Oklahoma. Hhow can a people rise up if you constantly put your size 12 white foot in his back? There will be hell to pay one day for the hate and ignorance. I pray a person like MLK rises up and leads a peaceful revolution aginst the tyranny and racist madness.
  27. cteich
    Thank you very much for your insightful and truthful letter. I also feel no need to contribute to the situation. It's terrible that so much sorrow and death has occurred, but why didn't their government take measures to protect their citizens better? Stay true to your convictions, I am, and I do not care how much 'false' guilt and slanderous accusations against me may arise, I have peace, and am free to think upon this in an unemotional, and logical manner. Thank you for your courage, and keep it up, I see the media has condemned you to no end. The main stream media is deceitful and immoral, and create their own double standards, when it suit their motives and agenda. Who cares what they think. The problem is they do not use rational thinking, it's all based on phony, emotional responses without any forethought what so ever. The World is on a slipper slope to destruction, and they are paving the way due to their hypocrisy and deceitfulness.
  28. heartlessliberal
    For all the people calling this guy a monster I want to ask you a question. When you donated how many people did you tell about your donation? The funny thing about people, is they are not so much sympathetic, they just like coming off as sympathetic. Its a rich white liberal thing, I never really got it. Toss a can of cream corn in that donation basket, go home pat your self on the back and forget about how your own over consumption is what contributes to places like haiti being so poor in the first place. I am not by any means saying regret or feel guilty about what you are. I am just saying look in the damn mirror. You are not a saint because you sent 10 bucks to haiti, your probably just a yuppie trying to alleviate some white guilt. So while you sip your Starbucks and write an angry rebuttal on your shiny new mac book pro remember that for the price of that laptop you probably could have fed a dozen poor people in some far off land but chose not to for your own convenience. Believe it or not I am a liberal, but when I see rich white people pretending like they care what happens to people in some random poor country they would never dare visit unless it was something they could put on their resume' all i can hear is "let them eat cake".
  29. Quebecer
    Congratulations, Sir. You have perfectly expressed the opinion of hundreds of millions of humans tired of being given lessons by a few dozens of incompetent and corrupted leaders. If you ever start a charity organization like "Condoms for the Dumbs", I`ll be your first donator, and my donation vs. net income ratio will be far more generous than Madonna's, with her $250,000 contribution. Thanks for your courage. It’s a lesson for all of us.
  30. Anonymous
    Just for the record, I agree with everything you say save one: Birth Control. Contraception is condemned by the Catholic church for a very good reason. It is taking the gift of sex that God gave us, and not using it in the way that God wanted us to. Basically like receiving somebody's gift and then slapping them in the face with it.
  31. Hmmmm..
    Looking back on your ignorant rant,you mentioned that it is the peoples fault they are in that situation,make it be the tsunami disaster, Haiti earthquake or the new Orleans hurricane. You proposed that it's their fault for living there when they know natural disasters can happen, I found that truly stupid (lack of a better word). Anywhere you live a natural disaster can happen, there are possibilities of natural disastrs every inch of where you are. With the tsunami, nothing like that has ever happened before. Sorry for the people that were not smart enough like you to know that they have put themselves in deaths way. Where you are reading this, an earthquake can happen, all your belongings lost maybe families, wouldn't YOU want help during this hard time? If someone. Just like you were to hear your story, they would just put all the blame on you. For what? Not moving to another place where different natural disaster can happen anytime? Sorry that not everyone have the same luxary as you, play basketball and make money, there are probably haitians out there better than you, they just were not given the opportunity like you. Your just one lucky person. To be born in such privelage, to have the money, houses, food to eat. Just remember there is no safe placenin the world, anything can happen. Those children did not choose to be born in that country they were put ther by God, you were lucky enough to be put by God with your family. Where I live, a tsunami can happen but we still live here because where would we live? At a new place where something else can happen? With living you also take chances. In basketball if you shoot the ball your taking a chance of missing it or not but you still shoot because if you passthe ball they're taking the chance too. You take the chance because if you make alot of chances and they go in, money and better oppurtunities will come your way. If not others shine while you fade. Things happen for a reason, maybe something good will come out of this earthquake, hopefully you looking at this disaster differently. -17yrs old
  32. Matt
    I don't mind people posing risky arguments, but the tone of the article suggests Paul has an inner hatred for people of a lower class and those that share a different opinion than he, particularly in the open letter. This isn't the first time I got that impression--Does anyone remember the article where he admonished everyone who liked the Beatles? He basically said that people who didn't like the same music as him were posers. He picked on the quote from the Haitian women, blaming her for her ignorance. But remember: there's a good chance that she is just responding in kind to a reporter's leading questions. Also, if that's what she truly thinks, how could he condemn a nation based on one woman's opinion? Another thing to consider, and most of important of all: she just lost everything in an earthquake. Could anyone think logically in that situation? It's one thing not give money to a beggar (which I don't), but it's another not to lend him a hand when he's hanging off a bridge.
  33. Lyn
    Your example of New Orleans isn't bad -- not a great place to build but, since so many people live there and it has some economic importance, let's learn to build better for that location. It's happening. California learned to build better for earthquakes, too -- hopefully, better enough. A lot of Haitians have been working their butts off for years, trying to learn how to run their country better. Past governments have been a greater disaster than the earthquake. They have been making large strides, digging out widespread corruption, building an effective police force, getting the gangs under control and winning a bit of confidence from the people. But it's an extremely long row to hoe. The aid we are sending now is just first aid for the injured and hungry. But we know why the government was ill-equipped to deal with the disaster, and the next step is to continue supporting development of good governance and infrastructure. The Haitians are more than willing to do whatever they can to help their country succeed. The whole point of the aid effort is to help them ehlp themselves.
  34. Greenlight
    Wow. This has got to be THEE most ignorant and ridiculous blog post I have EVER read. Not to mention the most self-contradictory. First of all, how is it the Haitian people's fault that a NATURAL disaster occurred? Should we not help the people who live in Florida when hurricanes destroy their homes? Or what about the tornadoes in the Midwest states. Or what about the people who live near Mount St.Helens in Washington. Are you saying they should pack up their things and leave and if they don't it is THEIR responsibilty for whatever happens to them should the volcano erupt? Its quite apparent to me that your post has a great deal of racist undertones as you only mentioned New Orleans and Haiti (two places that have an overwhelming number of blacks). If people are supposed to take into account the mere possibility of a natural disaster occurring in choosing where to live then there are very few places on this planet (if any at all) where people can live. Secondly, the Haitian government has a long and very public history of corruption and genocide. If you had a brain you would know this and understand that its not easy for "the people" to control their government and effect change. You seem to be under the interpretation that Haiti is a free, democratic utopia. The United States is just one country of a select few who enjoy peaceful and relatively seamless transitions of power every 4-8 years. Not everyone enjoys such a luxury and a privilege. And believe me, it is a PRIVILEGE to have politicians not engage in violence and outright propaganda during elections. Read a book and you'll understand that its not just Haitian people who have suffered under the hands of a corrupt government. Since you seem to know so damn much, why don't you instruct the Haitian people (many of whom were BORN into poverty and know nothing BUT poverty) how they could have improved their circumstance since you think its so easy. I think you are a bitter piece of trash who had more opportunities given to you than 98% of any Haitian could ever dream of, and yet you didn't rise to the occasion. I never even heard of you before your blog was linked on another sports website. I'm sure this was your goal in writing such an outlandish and disgusting blog. You wanted to capitalize on the plight of others so that your name would get out there. Thankfully ESPN had the good sense to fire you. From what I've read on a quick google search on you, that seems to be a common occurence huh? Fired from the Suns, fired from the Timberwolves. Now you know once the TIMBERWOLVES don't want you, that means you really are garbage. And instead of taking it in stride, you blame some other guy who got a contract. People like you doesn't deserve any time and attention paid, and I'm sorry that 20 minutes of my times was wasted on reading and responding to this crap.
  35. Morgan
    While this ethno- & American-centric rant was highly entertaining in it's absurdity, I think there should be more research into the history and colonization of Haiti BY the United States. WE are the reason their infrastructure is so bad and they could not develop their own economy because we forced them to export their natural resources to us and kept them in debt with impossible interest rates. If anyone is responsible and indebted, it is this country to Haiti. It is an indiviual choice to donate or not but your idea that they should learn from us, as if we are so flawless, is bullshit for lack of a better word.
  36. Anonymous
    You sound absolutely ridiculous and I wonder if it were a different race if your tone would be different. I hope you never end up in a situation where you need help because karma has a way of rearing itself to those who send out negative vibes on others. Think about that!
  37. Ronda
    Hey, Shirley .... you're a LOSER!!!
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  39. Third Rail
    I could not have said it much better. Great posting. I'm totally in awe of the incompentence thats displayed by many of the respondants to this point. Its obvious that most never read the entire post and the few who did never gave it a thought. Somehow, across the globe, we have twisted the thought of being charitable from providing a hand up, to providing a hand out. We (collective) are supposed to blindly give to those who have made no effort to improve their lot in life, whether on the streets of America, the jungle of Africa, or the Island Nation of Haiti. We cannot make each other strong by constantly supporting the lack of responsibility of the vast majority of the poor among us. Charity is something meant to show the way, to cover someone in the event of unforeseen circumstances. Living in Detroit, I've been approached by many people, begging for food. Very often, I've asked that person to follow me to a store or a diner. I've told them I will be glad to buy you something to eat. This has taken place on at least two dozen occassions in the last couple of years. Just one took me up on the offer. He got $9 worth of food that day and I felt wonderful for helping someone who really needed it. The others wanted their next bottle or their next hit. Screw them! (No, I'm not sorry for being so blunt.) To all those ranting about the initial post, and surely a majority in ire of my retort, I ask you all this; What has the war on poverty wrought? Where in America, or elsewhere in the World, has it made an iota of difference? When bad behavior is rewarded, just in the case of a whining 4 year old, bad behavior repeats itself. When a bit of tough love is displayed, behavior changes. I submit that you are only making the problem worse by unconditionally contributing to the problem.
  40. Mark Trail
    Paul Shirley is absolutely correct...he just may not have said it in the most tactful way possible. http://conservativehideout.wordpress.com/2010/01/29/paul-shirley-haiti-and-the-difference-between-intent-and-accomplishment/
  41. Maxwell, Joseph
    I have to say that it's nice to see someone thinking beyond the bleeding heart "logic." Yes what happened was tragic however, I do believe in social darwinism. "You give a man a fish, feed him for a day. You give a man a fishing pole, feed him for a lifetime." I agree with you that we should be spending more time helping the survivors prevent the next occurrence than simply holding their hands and telling them that everything is going to be alright. I felt exactly the same way about the Hurricane Katrina incident. When not prepared properly for catastrophes such as these that will inevitably happen, you can't come complaining to others who warned you. What happened in Haiti was terrible, but I'm glad the someone has the nerve to offer a differing opinion.
  42. Caring Soul
    I, for one, am glad you wrote this and am sorry that in our nation of "free speech" this cost you your job. Personally, if I had heard one more person wail about finding his or her 11 or 12 brothers and sisters, I would've screamed. A family that can't house or feed their own and continue to breed more is an outrage. Then, I'm supposed to help them with my hard earned money? I agree with the posts about helping for the future, not just for today. Help with education - the foundation of any strong nation. Help with shelter and clean water sources. Help with a better infrastructure - like many people have tried to say, starting at the bottom starts with new jobs which reach upward. Put the locals to WORK to help build self-pride and self-worth. Teach farming and work skills. Yes, the children are helpless and need much, but while providing the basics, provide the tools to move to a better life after the disaster. Don't just give handouts. When I see those basics put into place, I'll be glad to contribute once again, but not just for handouts.
  43. Anonymous
    Do you realize that Americans and Europeeans started the problem? Google search Haiti's History...
  44. greg
    I agree with the idea that the best way to help someone is to teach them how to help themselves and yes haiti as a country could be better prepared for emergency and emergency response, but Dude, Natural Disasters happen and everywhere in the world is prone to one. To say they should know better than to live in an area prone to disasters is just ridiculous. This is the worst earthquake the region has had in 100 years. This is not a once a decade or once a year thing. You are taking this blame the victim thing a little too far. Also to better understand the situation in Haiti , try to understand the history of the country, then the overwhelming response by the rest of the world will make more sense. IN a nutshell countries like the UK, France and the US ( the governments anyway) feel that they are partly rsponsible for Haiti's demise.
  45. Question everything
    Does this apply to L.A. also?
  46. Nicole
    Thank you for posting this. I completely agree with you, no matter how unpopular it is.
  47. Mark Trail
    @Anonymous: We are supposed to study history so that we DO NOT REPEAT IT, not so that we can come up with excuses for bad behavior! Haiti got a raw deal a couple of hundred years ago...that does not mean that we owe them ANYTHING and it's also not an excuse for them to remain screwed up and be a dumping ground for our charity! Helping them without demanding reform is no help at all! Fact of the matter is we have poured billions onto that island and those people remain screwed up! If you want to help them because it make YOU feel good...FINE, but don't think for a second you are actually solving their problem!
  48. DonnaRae
    Shirley, You young man have destroyed your own career with a stoke of your own pen.Didn't you see that coming!!!!
  49. Dr. Derrick L. Campbell
    Dr. Campbell responded to negative comments that were made by Paul Shirley regarding the efforts to assist the people of Haiti. Shirley failed to recognize how the dysfunctional European thirst for slavery has impacted the present culture of Haiti and the thinking of the people of Haiti. Dr. Campbell also spoke about helping the people of Haiti by teaching them to manage their human capital as a resource for economically redeveloping the country and redeveloping the mindset of the voodoo culture that dominates and transforming it into a Christian culture. Dr. Campbell calls on Christians to work as a team that will transform Haiti. You can listen to the entire show on www.culturallyspeakingshow.com.
  50. Arnie M.
    I read your article carefully Paul and admit I have been thinking many of these same things. To me it can be harmful to give people the wrong kind of help. We had several Canadian students who had been in Haiti during the earthquake. Their mission (prior to the earthquake) had been to help the locals set up a goat farm. A Canadian journalist Mark Steyn made this comment: ... Even by the standards of Third World dysfunction, what country is such a basket case that it needs outside help to set up a goat farm ... When you consider (prior to the earthquake) there were plenty of able bodied Haitians yet they needed Canadian kids to raise goats for them !!! A goat will eat anything , live anywhere, and practically look after themselves. Haitians , however cannot. Their problem is much more than an earthquake.

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